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Wedding Costs at a Glance

This chart shows where most wedding budgets go. The largest share is the venue, usually including space, catering, and drinks. Media covers photography and videography. Décor includes attire, flowers, and design elements that set the tone. Services span entertainment, planning, transport, stationery, and other essentials. Together, these categories outline how couples typically distribute costs.

Budget Breakdown

Budget Guide – Planning in St. Lawrence County

Step 1: Set Your Budget First

Your wedding budget drives every other decision. Before you pick a venue, book vendors, or send out save-the-dates, you need to know what you can realistically spend. A clear budget keeps you from overspending and helps you decide what’s most important.

Why it matters:

  • Every choice — venue, guest list, vendors — depends on it.

  • A budget sets boundaries and keeps decision-making focused.

  • Avoids being blindsided by hidden costs like gratuities, permits, and rentals.

Local Tip (St. Lawrence County):
Most local venues run $2,000–$5,000. Photography packages often start around $1,200. Caterers typically price by the plate ($25–$50 per guest). These ballpark numbers help you anchor expectations to the local economy.

What Couples Say is Worth the Money

  • Venue & Food: Guests remember good food and a comfortable setting. Couples in rural markets consistently say this was money well spent.

  • Photography: Photos last long after the day is over and are often cited as the best investment.

  • Entertainment: A good DJ or band sets the tone and keeps the energy up.

  • Guest Comfort: Small touches like shade tents or late-night snacks make a lasting impression.

What Couples Regret Spending On

  • Favors & Trinkets: Many couples admit favors weren’t worth it and often went unused.

  • Invitations & Stationery: Costly invites rarely feel justified when simpler options work just as well.

  • Over-the-Top Décor: Lavish décor fades quickly from memory compared to the overall atmosphere.

  • Oversized Guest Lists: Inviting too many people out of obligation increases costs and stress.